
As this BB sits at her computer trying to compose something to fit the occasion of Mother's Day, my eye wanders to the old photographs trapped in time and place beneath the glass top of my writing desk. One picture in particular draws my attention because the Bitchin' Brunette in the photograph is exceptionally sultry, sexy, and seemingly straight off the pages of a "gentleman's" magazine - and she's my mother. I love to collect old photographs, especially old photographs of my mom as they capture her in that brief period of time that didn't include me. I'm intrigued by what THAT woman wanted from life. The woman I know always just wanted what was best for me and worked to create a better life for me than the one she had - and she succeeded. But what I think about most now that I'm the mom is what my own beautiful mother really wanted just for herself and how at a very young age she willingly sacrificed all those things for me.
I've been blessed with a full, Bitchin' life thanks to a mom who pushed her dreams aside to teach me how to pursue mine. Mom protected me, guided me, held my hand when we crossed the street, scolded me, humiliated me, challenged me, grounded me, loved me, disliked my friends, disliked my taste in music, brushed my hair,tucked me in, drove me to practice, drove me nuts, gave me cash, gave me hell, called my teachers, called my bluff, caught my lie, caught me sneaking out, saved my report cards, and saved my life. She sewed my prom dress, sewed my wedding gown, wiped my tears, watched me fail, watched me soar, listened to my phone calls, listened to my dreams, took an interest, took her time, put her arms around me, put me in my place, told me "no", told me the truth, read me the riot act, read my mind, found my stash, found a way, taught me honesty, taught me to crochet, made me do the dishes, made me cry, made me cookies, made me mad - made me into the person I am. Thanks, Mom, for all the time and care you put into making me. I love you.
Happy Mother's Day to Bitchin' Moms Everywhere! (Brunette or otherwise)
D.